What a joy it is to see a baby come into the world and be welcomed into the family. A newborn needs special care... and so does the mother!
Pregnancy and childbirth are among the happiest stages in a woman's life. However, her body has to adapt to a number of changes not only during pregnancy, but also during the postnatal period. Having felt this small being grow inside her body can sometimes leave a woman with the impression that she must somehow reclaim it after giving birth.
The postnatal period can also bring its share of small and major inconveniences—changes to the appearance of hair, skin and breasts, back pain, heaviness in the legs, hemorrhoids, etc. Many of these problems resolve themselves over time, but this doesn't make them less unpleasant. It’s worthwhile to discuss these issues with a healthcare professional.
A new mother must eat well to avoid any deficiencies and to provide baby with all the necessary nutrients. Speak to a healthcare professional if you are concerned that your diet may not be providing all the nutrients you need. A vitamin and mineral supplement may be considered, but will not replace the benefits of a healthy diet.
If you have chosen not to breastfeed, a healthy and balanced diet is still important to help you maintain your health and your vitality. Canada’s Food Guide is your best resource when it comes to nutrition.
It is a well-known fact that the best food for your newborn is breast milk. In addition to being a healthy option, breastfeeding can provide great satisfaction for both mother and child. It promotes relaxation and attachment. When all goes well, breastfeeding is a wonderful experience, but difficulties sometimes arise.
Although breastfeeding is natural, it sometimes requires some learning and support from a knowledgeable professional. When you experience difficulties (poor latch, pain, chapping, etc.), don't hesitate to ask for help. Most breastfeeding-related problems have simple and accessible solutions. Your pharmacist can help you.
Fatigue and mood
Fatigue and mood swings are normal following childbirth. Taking care of a newborn requires a lot of energy. Some women who have been required to carry out intense efforts in their lives will tell you that they never felt as tired and overwhelmed as they did after the arrival of their baby! To maintain her energy and mood, it is important that a new mother be able to rest and feel supported.
Be alert for signs of postpartum depression such as sadness, anxiety, disinterest, and feelings of helplessness or guilt, especially if the mother has a history of depression. The disorder usually begins within six to eight weeks postpartum. Note that postpartum depression can affect all new mothers.
Sexual and urological health
Urological problems are common after childbirth, such as urinary incontinence leading to involuntary loss of urine at rest or on exertion (laughter and sneezing can also cause them). Temporary use of absorbent protective products may be helpful. A wide range of products is available at the pharmacy.
Sexuality can sometimes be an issue after childbirth. Decreased libido, pain during intercourse, loss of vulvovaginal sensitivity or lubrication and postcoital bleeding are some examples of possible difficulties. It is advisable to discuss resumption of sexual intercourse or any other sexual concerns with your partner and a healthcare professional.
Ask a healthcare professional about perineal re-education to ensure your sexual and urological health.
Some advice for new mothers
Here are some wellness tips for new mothers:
- Set aside some time to rest every day. Get adequate sleep. Take naps at the same time as your baby.
- Accept that nothing is perfect. Your well-being, health and that of your baby's are key. House cleaning and laundry can wait!
- To help you put your energy where it is really needed, encourage your spouse to help care for the baby and with day-to-day tasks.
- Ask your family and friends for help. A few minutes of babysitting, a prepared meal, or running a few errands can give you a boost and make you feel supported.
- If you notice signs that your health is deteriorating, see your doctor promptly. Sometimes, just sharing your concerns can make all the difference. Moreover, there may be solutions within your grasp.
- Participate in leisure activities to relax and get away from the daily routine (go shopping, visit friends, go on mother-baby movie dates, etc.).
Speak to your pharmacist for additional information about mother and baby health.